There is healing in the still places if life. There is help in the still places of life: it's retreats, it's withdraws for communion with God and one's own soul. Bereavement is one of the still places: disappointment, pain are others. Every spiritual awakening, every time of trial, is a time for withdraw for the soul, when it meets the angel of God and wrestles with him for a blessing. It is in the still places of life that we learn more perfectly God's will for us. With loving prayers.